Comments on: Rejected by Women? It’s Nothing Personal — Fix Your Approach http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/ A wealth of information for the PUA community. Learn how to pick up and attract women using proven methods. Master your game! Thu, 11 Mar 2010 07:25:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Agreed http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-672 Agreed Mon, 19 Jan 2009 12:09:31 +0000 http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-672 I have to agree, Truth. Unfortunately, you are pretty much spot on. However, the important thing to understand about pickup is that we're not trying to conform to other guys' precedent at all; most of us are nice, average-looking guys with plenty to offer. If we went around and dated the normal way, we'd have lower success than really attractive guys, really confident guys, etc., just like a lot of less-attractive women have less success than supermodel-gauge girls do. No, what pickup is really for is to distinguish yourself from other guys. Unless you luck out and happen to be a girl's image of the perfect guy, pickup theories can do nothing but improve your life. It's not just with women, either. Confident, comfortable, outgoing men succeed more at pretty much everything. Plus, some of the tips on this site are just to start working out, eating right, and getting some hobbies. Can't hurt! I have to agree, Truth. Unfortunately, you are pretty much spot on. However, the important thing to understand about pickup is that we’re not trying to conform to other guys’ precedent at all; most of us are nice, average-looking guys with plenty to offer. If we went around and dated the normal way, we’d have lower success than really attractive guys, really confident guys, etc., just like a lot of less-attractive women have less success than supermodel-gauge girls do.
No, what pickup is really for is to distinguish yourself from other guys. Unless you luck out and happen to be a girl’s image of the perfect guy, pickup theories can do nothing but improve your life.
It’s not just with women, either. Confident, comfortable, outgoing men succeed more at pretty much everything. Plus, some of the tips on this site are just to start working out, eating right, and getting some hobbies. Can’t hurt!

]]> By: Truth http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-521 Truth Mon, 10 Nov 2008 04:41:30 +0000 http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-521 To Hell wit hthis crap!! I am so tired of reading this garbage of how it's Men's fault and how we need t o"fix ourselves". It's women withthe problem. Some men are shy, some are not, we are all different but in these stupid articles. We have to strive to all be alike just to have women resepct us. It all bullshit. Women are scum, the majority of them. They are the ones who are unkind, rude, ugly and uncompassionate. When do you everread articles telling women to all be alike to get men to like them? Rarely! They get a free ride. This shite will not end until men refuse to play the game any more. Because al it does is create a sciety of angry men and women who abuse them. To Hell wit hthis crap!! I am so tired of reading this garbage of how it’s Men’s fault and how we need t o”fix ourselves”. It’s women withthe problem. Some men are shy, some are not, we are all different but in these stupid articles. We have to strive to all be alike just to have women resepct us. It all bullshit. Women are scum, the majority of them. They are the ones who are unkind, rude, ugly and uncompassionate. When do you everread articles telling women to all be alike to get men to like them? Rarely! They get a free ride. This shite will not end until men refuse to play the game any more. Because al it does is create a sciety of angry men and women who abuse them.

]]> By: Gene http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-227 Gene Wed, 16 Jul 2008 22:13:33 +0000 http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-227 Great list, I also use visualization and affirmations just to perk myself up and build more confidence. Sounding natural and not appearing serious but rather playful and full of fun are also good way to appear more smooth. Make your approach part of your game and most importantly embrace small wins and do not dwell on negative outcomes but learn from them. Good luck. If it doesn't kill you makes you stronger. - g Great list,

I also use visualization and affirmations just to perk myself up and build more confidence. Sounding natural and not appearing serious but rather playful and full of fun are also good way to appear more smooth. Make your approach part of your game and most importantly embrace small wins and do not dwell on negative outcomes but learn from them. Good luck. If it doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. - g

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